More About My Therapeutic Approach
Therapy isn’t about fixing you - it’s about understanding you. It’s a space to get curious about how your life has shaped you, what matters to you now, and how you want to move forward. If you’re someone who wants more than surface-level tools, who craves insight and real connection, you’re in the right place.
Below are the guiding frameworks that shape how I practice therapy. You don’t need to know these terms to benefit from them - this is just a peek behind the curtain so you know what’s holding the work.
Therapeutic Lenses (and what they mean)
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You’re more than a diagnosis. You’re a whole, complex person.
We’ll approach your experiences with warmth, respect, and a belief that you’re inherently worthy - even if you don’t always feel that way.
I won’t pretend to be the expert on your life. Instead, we’ll collaborate to uncover your own insights and inner wisdom.
Sessions may include slowing down, connecting to what’s true for you in the moment, and getting to know the different parts of yourself with compassion.
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Healing happens in the context of safe, attuned relationships.
The therapy relationship itself matters - it can be a space to notice how you show up with others and what it’s like to let someone really see you.
Together, we might look at how early relationship dynamics show up in your present ones, including how you seek connection, protect yourself, or handle conflict.
If something comes up between us, we’ll name it and explore it - not ignore it. That’s part of the work.
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What’s beneath the surface matters. Your story has layers.
We won’t just focus on what’s happening - we’ll explore the why behind your feelings, patterns, and internal conflicts.
Together, we might connect present-day struggles to formative experiences, unspoken beliefs, or internalized messages that are still shaping you.
This work often brings more clarity, self-trust, and a deeper sense of agency over time.
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We don’t exist in a vacuum - your environment shaped you.
We’ll explore how your family system, culture, and social identities have influenced the way you see yourself and move through the world.
We may name the expectations you’ve internalized and consider which ones still serve you, and which ones don’t.
This can be especially helpful if you’re navigating role shifts, people-pleasing patterns, or generational dynamics.
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Your earliest connections shaped how you relate, trust, and protect yourself.
We’ll explore how your attachment style may impact your relationships and your sense of safety - both with others and with yourself.
This might look like unpacking fear of vulnerability, over-functioning, avoidance, or intense self-criticism.
The therapy relationship can also become a corrective emotional experience - where you get to feel safe, seen, and responded to differently.
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Your emotions and inner parts are messengers - not problems.
We’ll slow down enough to notice what feelings are showing up - and what they might be asking of you.
I often work with clients to get to know different “parts” of themselves (the perfectionist, the pleaser, the anxious one) with curiosity, not shame.
When you begin to listen to yourself in this way, it opens space for change, healing, and wholeness.
What this means for you
Therapy with me is collaborative, emotionally attuned, and rooted in real conversation. We’ll move at a pace that feels right for you - making room for humor, discomfort, insight, and everything in between.
You don’t have to show up a certain way here. You just have to show up.